That TEDx talk on abuse triggered me badly, ended up in tears. It wasn't me who was threatened by h but s17. There were also abusive name callings, constant degradation and a threats to leave me stranded. There was always that feeling that I was unable to get any needs met.
H did make out to be the abuser, in so many ways. I still doubt myself. I don't believe I name called to the same level h did. Yes in some ways I did talk in a jackel like way which h took as critism. It wasn't meant that way.
H did what that lady's h did by making her think she was in control, never the case. Also mine didn't hit me but s, that was a way of keeping his hands clean and giving him more leverage than hitting me.
He was even trying to continue abuse when I turned up dressed up. He wanted me to follow him round while he collected my stuff tottering round paddock in heels.
Um nope mate, I stood waiting just inside back door, and outside. It was a fetch it a$$ hat attidue from me.
I post warts and all to show you guys it's no different for any of us. Up down round rise repeat.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
