Vanilla thank you so much. You really have been a big help.

The hardest thing is I still haven't given up on us 100%. Yes there has been a ton of damage, but I am not ready to take my ball and run home yet.

Of course all that may be based off me sitting around doing nothing. Once I start GAL, I may see things in a different light. I may find that our relationship was unhealthy and I just wanted it because it was the known. Those are all things only time will tell. But at the same time I will never know if I don't start GAL.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15