I was discussing this at length last night with my mates(after a few too many beers) as it stands Im moving on and saying no to R (not that my wife has even mentioned it since the day I left) but if I'm truthful I still think about it and if it would be possible. I push those thoughts out of my mind though. My relationship with my wife since I've left is purely about D8. We don't talk about us, m, R divorce nothing. It's easier at the moment We do need to discuss selling our property very soon which I'm sure will be difficult. It's the calm before the storm at the minute. Yes defo get advice about your sitch financially. If your wife makes a lot more than you then maybe she will have to pay you money.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
