Vanilla I agree with you. They both own their own houses and both of them have D's my W and I have D14 and he has a D17. But both the D's go to other parents house for part of the week but they still only hang out at hotels 40 minutes away in another state.

I know I can't believe him but he told me that I will never see them together and she will never be his girlfriend. He never said he wouldn't use her a booty call which is what he is doing.

Sandi2 if you are out there, I know I have frustrated you before with my actions, but now that I know she is in an A, I am willing to listen you. My situation sounds exactly like yours in reverse. I really need to get into your head from the time period you situation happened.

I was her only date, only kiss, only everything, it is heartbreaking to know that the next guy is able to use her as a hotel toy. There is not a person in this world that would think she would of ever stooped to this. But at the same time she left me because of her insecurities and this old guy made her feel like she was a queen.

The hardest part for me is this all came out full blown on Easter week. Easter was the day 19 years ago her parents threw her out. I was hoping there was still some emotion left in her with the significance of Easter. But then again if she can betray me she has no else to worry about disappointing. She has no family.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15