The last weeks everything was quiet normal. She acts as if there would be no problem at all. Then she asked me to help her get rid of the old wardrobe. She wanted something smaller. I have told her I would not help. She said "ok". I also told her that I would not be available when she is away for her therapist training. I have sent her the exact amount of money I have to officially pay for the kids, no money helping her with her training. And due to a terrible cold I will not be with her and the kids on her easter brunch.
I have no idea what she thinks about it. She wanted to know a reason why it's less money this month, but I said nothing. It was tough to make those decisions, especially because I would love to have a complete weekend with the children, but then I would be the babysitter and would support her. So reality is moving into her life. Do you think this is to harsh?
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out
