It's hard gan, cause wihtout him wanting to be there how long are you prepared to wait it out?
I waited my year, it was like we shall see where it washes up in a year. H had posted christmas selfies on ow fb page for his birthday. Amoungst other things, and I can help feeling each time a gossip rings or rasies h it's running back to him directly.
The waiting on my side was only half hearted, if I had met someone I would have gone out and not held back.
My ic said there is no way to have any relationship with someone who doesn't want it, so unless you allow cake eating and carry his side?
I'm not sure there is anything you can do?
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26