Errod, I'm sorry to hear that. But hey listen - your W isn't playing head games. From her perspective, she has checked out of the M and sees herself 'free' to pursue OM. She actually isn't doing this to hurt with you or mess with your head, she's reaching out to someone else to make herself feel better. OM makes her feel great about herself right now.

It's a destructive choice of course, and that is why most A's unravel. If you can, it is best to work towards a place that you can accept this as it is for now. It's not great that your W is in a hotel with another man - but it 'is' what is happening right now - and there isn't much you can do about that.

The main thing is to look after yourself and your D as best you can today. Difficult circumstances, but you will get through this.

((Errod))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus