To me it feels like he's expecting you to be plan b. Then I cannot say what his plan a is.
Most of us have said he had a plan of some sort at bd. mine had his a. The fact he wants none of his needs met by you but needs a better r. Suggests he wants you to hang round till he says, only you can decide what your prepared to put up with.
I was for a bit but now, who can be bothered, when h isn't working on anything but ow!
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26