Yes. It does sound familiar. While part of me still thinks your spouse should be the one who loves you unconditionally, I'm now learning the importance of healthy boundaries, even with loved ones. Problem is, I didn't have the tools in place and the knowledge that I have now back when I was sort of "letting it all hang out' early on in my marriage.


Me: 38
H: 43
Kids: 2,4
T10 M6
BD: 1/14
11/14: H moves out