Ontheup,
Have you ruled out reconciliation? And how has you relationship with your spouse been since the move. I will be a long way away come august. Today I took a major step, I opened a new checking account, and transfered my savings, I don't think she would do anything crazy but I needed to ensure I protect myself. She did not like hearing that I moved money into myvown account however. Today we are meeting to talk about division of assets. I hate these talks. They just kill me aND eat me up inside.

Now she is talking about wanting money from my retirement, and once I move out of the house she is wanting to split the housing allowance, and my cost of living adjustment I get. Hell we are not even D Yet. I know I have to give her a certain amount but Someone seems to be putting a bug in her ear For her to ask for half! She already makes more than I do with all my income combined. Insane! Yes today is g going to be a very hard day to experience.


RysingMan

Me:31 W:29
T:8 M:4
D bomb: 10/2014
S 1/2015