I know, Cherry! When I read the post from Toots on your thread I thought that I should look into that too. My H hates his father because he left his family, and yet now he's saying he's going to do it. Of course, he says it will be different. I feel like taping him and letting him hear himself sometimes. I do think my H could be jealous about my S. We were together 20 years before he was born. I know I have a rough time adjusting to living with a small one around some days.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out