Continuing DBing

[PeterV2]

I'm not telling her I love her all the time. In fact I may only mention it maybe once a month when we're having a tender moment and then she usually replies back with an I love you too.
She just asked why I even want her.

Maybe I just should have said I'll answer that question when you prove that the A is over and the OM is out of our life forever.

I've undergone many positive changes in the past year and she does see those. But she still wants more.

I told her I feel like she thinks I'm Mr moneybags. She denied that. I told her if it were not for me propping up her business it would have gone belly up a year ago. She wants to see our income - says I don't share that with her. I told her I tried to show her the books and she just says it's to overwhelming. So I ask what she wanted - she wants to see our income over the past year.
So I'll show her that.

She had asked for my MasterCard statements back in the fall - I gave them to her within a couple of days after I dug them all out. I don't even think she looked at them.

Having a birthday dinner for D28 tonight at our place. Don't really want to get into it before that. But I'm getting pretty peed off at her dismissiveness of me. Maybe she's just getting back at me for being dismissive of her which I used to do, not to be mean, but just because I had a different viewpoint and would state it emphatically. I've tried to soften my approach to differences of opinion. Something I still need to work on.

We got to a point last night where I told her she can move out. She said she's not moving out and told me to move out. I said I'm not moving out - it's my house. She said it's her house too.
I said we should just try to work this out. It can be done. She said she didn't know how.