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Had to message him regarding baby.. Wished him luck with a meeting he had to. I thought I may have got a response but I didnt. Shan't read into things. I just hope he doesn't see it as pursuing behaviour


It was pursuing if the call was something that simply could not wait until he got off work or returned home (whatever the case). LBS use their kids as an excuse to contact the WAS. If it couldn't keep, then don't worry about it.

However, I will say this.....if it were my cheating H, then it would have to almost be to the point of being urgent before I called. But that's just me.

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I do think if we spent more time together I could win him round. It's hard not seeing him often but I guess the time I do see him I need him to see I am that everything he wants and more!


That is what you want b/c he is the WAS. You have to be real careful you don't let your emotions turn you into a clingy W. Be smoking hot and walk around with a spicy attitude of "don't you wish you had some of this"! You know you look good and you are a classy lady. Remember, let him chase you till you catch him. wink


Last edited by sandi2; 04/02/15 08:19 PM.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!