Hi Pink, it sounds as though you are doing well - strong and sure. Great that you have the long weekend coming up and you can relax, recuperate and probably dance a little too, knowing Pink.

It is good that you recognise the recurring loop with H. There is some distance and pursuit going on there I think, and you can influence that dynamic. As you grow stronger, H gets teary and says you are his whole world. Then you soften, and then he goes off again to OW.....and so on...rinse, repeat...

I guess the challenge will be to be faced with him in that frame of mind again. Your heart may well want to soften and believe this time may be different. How do you plan to handle things next time around lovely Pink?

I hope you and your boys have a great weekend anyway....T xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus