hold on! - 9

[u-turn]

Yeah, did the same last night.
Asked to see W's phone.
She said no.
I asked what are you hiding.
She said "nothing".
Then show me your phone.
No, you've invaded my privacy in the past.
You started this A Feb 2013.
No.
I have proof - it was an EA at that point but still an A.
You drove me to it.
You've been lying to me ever since. There is no trust here.
Then why do you still want me?
Because I love you - you were a great person. I believe we can fix this.
How can we fix this when you screw up al the time.
You screw up all the time too - we just need to learn from our mistakes, forgive and grow.
[contemplative silence]

Yep - if she has nothing to hide and wants back in, she should hide nothing. It may be controlling, but maybe the only way.

By the way - I would have stopped before the red part up there. I think this still make you sound like a sure thing - or easy target. You may think it, but I'm not sure she needs to hear it.