Thank you for the support mahhhty! How are you doing today? What is the latest with your situation? I've missed you! The post you added from the LBH thread does seem like it could be helpful in my situation.

I suppose I could start by asking questions in other threads. That, many times for me, gets me to think about something I hadn't thought of before. I don't feel I'm ready to offer advice.

I used to play/coach ice hockey and I have started skating again. I also meet up with friends every two weeks or so. I am trying my best not to sit around the house and mope. I am still attending a divorce support group which seems helpful, and I've met a lot of nice people there.

Take care my friend!

Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15