just journaling to put it out of my mind:

W texted me to tell me that she is sorry but OM gave S17 the tour as everyone else was gone.

and that he had a great time.

I wasn't going to respond, but did with "of course"
and "I talked to S17 already - he said it was good"
and then "thanks for letting me know"

I think she took it is "golly - what bad luck we have" - clueless? avoiding? non-caring? thinks I'm stupid?

she keeps texting me about possibilities why nobody else was there to give him the tour. (how about you planned this all along)

trivial in the grand scheme I guess, but this stuff is accumulating in me - time to call BS again?

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015