That's the problem with a section vs. the whole thing.
The sections in the book above the portion I quoted talk about forgiveness, respect, etc. But the entire book is focused on generating attraction (or chemistry if you prefer) in a committed relationship.
The quote is probably too long and the original intent of posting it seems to have been lost based on everyone's reactions.
I notified the mods to look at it and adjust it as needed.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.