The problem with this type of communication (or email, texts, etc.) is that it leaves some much to interpretation. We all have our own personal lens or bias. It would be much easier with a face-to-face discussion.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.