BPD and bipolar are clinical diagnosis. If you W has been clinically diagnosed then perhaps treatment is appropriate and I trust she is receiving this and has made that decision. I will read your sitch soon so I understand this.

However what is appropriate for the minority 1 in 500 bipolar is inappropriate for the majority. Scherman, if this is the case then indeed you need every support we can give you to deal with this. And I give you unreservedly my strength. I am very interested in stats can you point me in the direction of your research paper on male abuse? Mine come from the Healing Hurt report on abuse in 2006. If there is a later study then I would find that useful.

I believe in acting from love, even when enforcing boundaries love is a requirement. And yes we must mean our consequences when we enforce boundaries. Enforce consequences on our reasonable boundaries of course, control and insist on jobs being done? Really? This could never be done with love and respect! This is like doing 'something for your own good, because I love you' discipline.

For a very opposite view examine Al Turtles Master Slave discussion.

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Last edited by Vanilla; 04/02/15 04:15 PM.
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