Originally Posted By: mvgfwd2
It's not about stopping her. She will do what she wants. It's what you will do to not allow it to be in your life. You can't force her to do anything. You can only control you.

If she won't stop seeing OM, and it's a boundary you have declared, you have to take a stand by doing things to block its affect on YOU. Like cutting off financial support of the A, etc. She can't have you and the OM and your actions have to show that.

To bring her back you may have to let her go and GAL for yourself. Be someone only a fool would leave. Focus on improving You, not her response.


You may NOT be able to bring her back. Let her go live with the OM.