Bumping for you.

Few thoughts -- but I am swamped at work.

- I think you should listen to what/if anything she has.
- I think you should taper your honesty
- No ultimatums to her. But perhaps to yourself
- You keep expecting her to commit to a course of action. She won't. She's not going to. As my IC said, you can't expect to have an honest conversation with people who aren't honest with themselves.
- What does an in house separation do? Except meet your needs to have your W back.

More thoughts later. Hopefully some others will chime in later.


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15