- I think you should listen to what/if anything she has. - I think you should taper your honesty - No ultimatums to her. But perhaps to yourself - You keep expecting her to commit to a course of action. She won't. She's not going to. As my IC said, you can't expect to have an honest conversation with people who aren't honest with themselves. - What does an in house separation do? Except meet your needs to have your W back.
More thoughts later. Hopefully some others will chime in later.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15