If someone comes back in 'too easy' there is a greater risk of lessons not being truly learned and cheating may happen again.
Well put. I've been practicing some of the phrases that Sandi put in her thread in the mirror to be ready, just in case:
Originally Posted By: Sandi2
"I would like to believe you, however, things aren't that simple now". Then if she asks what you mean, you say, "I would have to feel I would not be hurt again, and considering everything, I don't know that I can take that risk yet"
Originally Posted By: Pyrite
Refusing she has done anything wrong, ever, let alone change her mind about considering a future between us.
My WW has admitted that what she did is inexcusable, and she has expressed a lot of remorse. But they are just words, not actions. It did feel genuine, but it was probably a temperature check to make sure I'm still available as a Plan B.
Originally Posted By: u-turn
I am asking myself all of this right now. Is she a cheater or has she just cheated? Is there a difference?
I believe there is a difference. I like to believe that she just made a terrible decision.
Me:43, WW:45 2 Kids: 21,22 Married: 23 Years Bomb: 01/2015 Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015 She left: 03/2015
