So I went to the track meet last night and sat with the teams coaches. W gets there about 15 minutes later and sits next to me. I didn't want to move because I was already there with my friends. Then she talked the entire time about work and all the stuff we used to talk about that she hasn't mentioned in months.
At one point she said I am hungry lets go get a snack. That is another thing we haven't done together in months walk around anywhere together. Then it got cold as the night when on and she brought a sleeping bag. She asked me if I wanted to go under it too. Which I declined. Now there was also numerous times through the night that she mentioned our futures not together. At which time I never said a word anytime.
Lastly because D14 had her clothes at my place I was going to swing by and grab her stuff and drop D14 off at W's house. So I texted W when we were on our way. And she texted back great see you soon with a smiley face. I never left the garage. I opened the door for D14 but never went into see the wife.
All of this after calling her attorney the day before about possibly putting a protective order against me.
Very confusing situation. Even though I am still connected and want things to work out, I will be ok either way. I have been GAL. Tonight I have D14 and we are going to watch a track meet with one of her friends, then the friend is sleeping over. Tomorrow night I have plans with friends. Saturday night is D14's cheer banquet where I will have to see W. Sunday is Easter not positive how that is going down in the morning. But D14 and I are going to a friends house that afternoon and evening to enjoy the Holiday.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15