Thank-you for the encouragement Dawn. I really appreciate it.

I've been doing a lot of flip flopping around these days. Do I want to try and reconcile, assuming she comes back at some point. Or should I just keep working on myself and prepare to move on. While reading another site I found an article that had these quotes:

Ask yourself if you are prepared to enter a new relationship with someone who you absolutely know is willing to cheat on you.

The truth is that the cheater is willing to be unfaithful in the right circumstances and that, to them, any pain this causes you is acceptable collateral damage.

There would need to be a significant change in her thinking to make sure this doesn’t happen again.


Me:43, WW:45
2 Kids: 21,22
Married: 23 Years
Bomb: 01/2015
Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015
She left: 03/2015