Bea, You are doing the right things, i.e., by remaining calm and detached. What I have always found interesting w/the mlcer is that even though you are divorced, they still seem to think that they can waltz right in and take whatever they want. If they can't get it being a bully w/threats, etc., then they will try being nice. Somewhere on the Mother Ship should be a class on what divorce does and what it means. They don't get it and that's why they will truly don't go away for a very long time, if ever.
Bea, for your sake, it would be nice if he would pack up his mlc tricks and go away and work on himself, but I don't see him doing that. He's better, but he's still got a long ways to go and who knows if he ever will figure things out. He's a lost soul because his compass (you) is gone.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
