Good question Pyrite - and I still don't know the answer after 10 months or so. I agree that (from their perspective) the feelings probably are real *at that moment*. Thing is - feelings change. No one really know how they'll be feeling a week, month, year from now. Right?

Cadet had a wise reply. Turn your focus onto you and you can be guaranteed that things will work out.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014