Good question Pyrite - and I still don't know the answer after 10 months or so. I agree that (from their perspective) the feelings probably are real *at that moment*. Thing is - feelings change. No one really know how they'll be feeling a week, month, year from now. Right?
Cadet had a wise reply. Turn your focus onto you and you can be guaranteed that things will work out.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014