<<<she has LOST interest in giving BJ's. This is totally unfair. She knows I love them, therefore she should want to perform these for me. But she never does, which is really very inconsiderate of her. This then puts me into the uncomfortabel position to have to ask for it, which really puts a damper on things>>>
CeMar, you are SO missing my point.
First, you don't have to ask her if you're suckable. She's already answered that question!
She knows you love it, she's not interested. It's not her priority to give you mind-blowing pleasure. If you do ask, and she consents, it will be dutiful. There may be women out there who just love giving BJ's but I haven't met any of them. The women I know who are enthusiastic, aren't getting off on what they're doing, they are getting off on how much pleasure they are able to give-- the desire is to give pleasure, not to mimic an oil drill.
You're working on the end, not the means to the end, at least in my opinion.
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
