I am a HD guy. I would give my wife oral EVERYDAY if possible. She NEVER has to ask for it. But on the flip side, she is ND, and she has LOST interest in giving BJ's. This is totally unfair. She knows I love them, therefore she should want to perform these for me. But she never does, which is really very inconsiderate of her. This then puts me into the uncomfortabel position to have to ask for it, which really puts a damper on things. Oh, what I wouldn't give for a drug to make her desire come back.