I am sad you and the kids aren't going to a fun event. I do believe you should.

Joe, I am deeply suspicious that your WW is having a full blown A or is stating one.

Another thought occurred to me, I was sitting in a Gamanon meeting and one of the members described her H behaviour prior to discovering he was a compulsive gambler, secretive and computer locked. So this is very addicted style behaviour. The description made me think of Joe's WW.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW