TLEE86. Part III

[TLEE86]

Hi pink thanks for the check in- Sorry I've been MIA, been in the field for 17 days so it's been hard to get internet access. We finally go home tomorrow- I need a shower, ha.

Kind of need some advice here, hopefully you guys can help out. My W just started seeing an IC Who basically told her that we are both avoiding the problem and that we are pretending like things are fine when they are not. I will be in her area this weekend for work and were going to hang out and get dinner. She said she wants to talk about things, on the advice of her IC. Just about everything, not really something in particular.

What should I say to her? How honest should I be?

I've told her recently that I'm pretty close to being done, idk if I should have, and she responded well if your almost done then why are you going to see me?

Idk if I should give her an ultimatum. Come home and we can be separated in house and go from there an if it doesn't work thn we can file divorce, but this limbo is helping anyone.

She has made no move to committ to any course of action so she's still "figuring herself out." She actually told me today that she half expects me to date and I said is that what you wanna do and she said no.

Bottom line, what do I say to her when I see her, now that she actually wants to sit down and talk about everything???