Miler, hang in there and be the best dad you can be for your kids. 15 yrs of marriage is along time and it will take a big effort to detach and get to the point where you can and will just let her go. It's hard not to be angry and bitter at this stage. If you can bite your tongue and don't get drawn into any arguments. I know it seems unfair. Unfortunately your wife is not the woman you married right now. You can throw all the reasons why you married her out the window right now. When she cries or tells you she is having a hard time or doubt just agree with her non emotional and let her be.I have been in your shoes for 15months now and can honestly say I finally got what everyone was telling me to do. Detach and GAL. Your the prize. Hang in there.
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