Confused & mix messages part 2

[Cherry]

Journaling, trip to the IC was pretty positive. When she gave her intro she said she works with solution focus brief therapy. I took my copy of DR and said that is what I'm working with. She was very behind that. She listened and said that Hs actions and what he's said aren't that of someone wanting a D.. She said about thinking the lack of attention he's had since birth of baby. Thought I was doing a great thing by working on me GALing etc.
it was successful, but tbh I have learnt way more on this site. This is free therapy! She did make me feel positive about joining mine and Hs paths together.
Looked into flights and hotels to maybe take baby and me on a vacay for a few days. I asked H the other week if he wanted to come- he said he didn't think he could get the time off work.
I do think if we spent more time together I could win him round. It's hard not seeing him often but I guess the time I do see him I need him to see I am that everything he wants and more!