hey Separation? Sorry is it you or your wife who is planning on moving? If it you then just start. Get somewhere to go, make a list of what you need to get you to that place. If its your wife then don't let her slack on it because she will she wont want to go. Keep the pressure on that she needs to go if that is what you have agreed. Set a date she needs to be out by. Get your finances sorted. Do your children know?
Yes separation. I don't know how else I should have handled the situation last night.
I mean, my W was the one who wanted to reconcile a month ago, after I did the 180 on her. I let her back to easily though, and she staying in touch with him. But at least there were no more sleep overs and night outs.
But yesterday I found out that they met for lunch. After confronting her, she said things like she just can't let him go, and I should just turn a blind eye to those quick meetings and texting.
I countered with, "well if u can't let him go then we might as well go separate ways, cause I'm not willing to be part of an open M".
Our talk last night didn't last that long, but I basically said she needs to move out soon. And so she agreed, she's gonna move at the OMs place.
And today, just one day after our talk, she's already spending the night at OMs place... uuuughhhhhh.... I don't know if I messed up or if I should have responded differently last night.
What do u think?
We're planning to tell the kids this weekend.
M 30 W 31 S8 and S6 M 7 T 13 D-Day Mid December 2014 EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014
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