Thank you, Calibri and Vanilla. Sincerely.

So much to mull over. I keep replaying the events of the meetup and our R. Although I have more understanding of how we got here, I still find it so hard to think that D is inevitable given the range of options I see for improving things. He doesn't see these - clearly. I'm sad about that.

We often see people on here say they feel like it is BD all over again. Well I get it. The difference this time round is that I know I will be ok. Just operating on survival mode now.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014