Bea, He doesn't want further contact and yet it's the game of distance/pursuer. Give the man what he wants...no more contact. But, I can assure you, when he's ready, you'll hear from him again. He can't remain silent for very long.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
