My "ex" used to drip wine on me and lick it off. She said that was why she always bought burgundy colored sheets.
She was a good cook and gave good head, but that's not enough to build a healthy relationship on, especially after I found out she was "cooking" with someone else. That, and the drugs pretty much ended it for me.
Hey, I like that alphabet-licking idea. Perhaps if my H and I reconcile, he might be open to improving his skills. Then when the skills improve, we can add the food.
Mostly just day-dreaming though ...
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
I saw this movie once where this woman was criticizing her lover for using his tongue like a buzzsaw. "Pretend," she said, calmly, "like you're licking honey off the wings of a butterfly."
Nice description but not always. Different pressures and sensations for different playtimes are fun. Sometimes intense pressure is the sensation is desired, othertimes I agree with what you suggested, in fact, I really like that description. Who the he!! remembers what it's like anyway???
I wish I could remember the name of that movie. It was in the foreign film section of my local video store. It had another great quote:
Two guys talking. One says, "You know the difference between involvement and committment? It's like eggs and ham." The other guy looks at him, questioningly. "Yeah, the chicken is involved, but the pig is committed."
Alright people you are killing me here today. Im sitting here at work and you all are talking about this. I haven't had a good one of those for a VERY long time.
Question for you HD women? Do you think your H's aren't good at it becuase they are LD?
I mean that would be my guess becuase for me I have studied long and hard on the oral pleasure of the woman and wow there is nothing more satisfying then you W telling you she can't take anymore becuase it feels SOOOOO good.
And I wonder why she doesn't want to do it all the time its beyond me.
I never said he wasn't any good, it was adequate, but too infrequent, maybe 10 times in 16 years of marriage, and too quick. Sex to him was, yes, I really should use past tense here, a hurried, let's not put any effort into it, get it over with thing. My stbx was ND. Sexual Aversion and Passive Agressive behaviors.
