I have always enjoyed performing fellatio on my H. He, however, was not the best at performing it on me, meaning I was not impressed with his skills. Apparently I have had better skilled fellatio givers before he came into my life.

So, as time passed and he realized I really didn't care for him going down on me, he quit asking me to go down on him. I have offered it at times in the past several years before our separation just because I loved him and enjoy doing it to him and he had left me with the impression he enjoyed receiving it, but he turned me down all but ONE time. His loss.

I currently classify myself as LD, hoping to change back to HD.

A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.