Maybe I didn't write it clearly. I stated my boundary (not wanting to live in an open M) and I suggested to separate, and she agreed. We still have to discuss the details, but I already told her I want her out soon.
You're right, I shouldn't show any weakness. What about the plans that we made for this coming extended weekend? Should I cancel them? Or act like I'm upbeat and indifferent to the whole separation thing, that we can still go on this family trip and go out clubbing like we planned last week?
M 30 W 31 S8 and S6 M 7 T 13 D-Day Mid December 2014 EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014
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