Wife having emotional affair 5

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MCS please keep in mind my first six months were filled with a lot of hate and exposure of the affair. Totally not what the db process is about. The process is a total growth process. It truly is all about you. When I left every thing behind is when I started to feel that way. You can only change you! I engulfed myself in my kids lives and my new hobbies and old hobbies. My new life that I wanted. Probably the greatest advise on this board. They (WW) are welcome to join you. Trust me I'm still working on my self every day. Becoming the man I want to become is hard work. I do see less and less because of us both. Me because I now know what kind of dad I want to be and I found the adventure type person I lost being when I had kids. Her because I don't even know her anymore, is she even the same person I fell in love with. Although I do see signs of that old person. But who knows? I probably won't know that until she gets the right help for her depression and anxiety and other issues. You truly can't work on your self and kids hard enough. If you can't think of anything to work on, ask you close friends what are your bad traights. Emotions are every day thing learn to control them. Watch ted videos to learn how.

I'm not the best on helping on this stuff. So I hope I answered your question. Good luck.

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