That was my fear with that comment. She did outwardly agree to full transparency and the blocking. She just did not know how to do the actual blocking. Then again she could have just been letting me hear what I wanted to hear, though I have asked her to be completely honest with me.
At least she knows I am serious about the NC matter, though sometimes it feels like I am pushing the matter too often.
I will look at your suggestions here shortly.
MC is supposed to start next week. I will continue monitoring what I can, and see what she wants out of MC. Anything short of working on our M, then I will just go on my own.