Sorry, but for most of us here, getting blown is the very least of our worries...
Seriously, for me, it was never really a big deal. If W would ML with me in every other way but that, I would be on cloud nine! Even if we could ML more than 10 times a year, I'd be at least on cloud 7. The biggest thing for ME, is giving HER oral - THAT is my favorite-of-favoritest things! That turns me on like nothing else. Alas, she cut me off even THAT some 8 years ago now. GAWD, I miss it...
