It really doesn't matter what his preference in women are because he is in a total fog. The enemy has taken him captive to do his will (2 Timothy 2:16).

When he calls to "check-in", reinforce that behavior. Thank him for letting you know where he is and then say nothing else about it.

If he texts (or emails) you with positive messages, respond more quickly and pleasantly. If he is texting separation talk, or being corse or hateful, do not respond for awhile. Don't say anything about it just simply let him stew for awhile. It's much harder to argue by yourself. Start to positively reenforce that behavior that you want from him.

I'm sorry, Cherry, but I haven't been following along as well as I should have. Where do his friends and family stand on this and/or how much do they all know about it?

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3