Confused & mix messages part 2

[Heart14]

Cherry, it sounds like you are on the right track. Your posts are definitely more positive than they were at the beginning. Way to go girl!

This woman is all the things he usually dislikes in a woman! But I guess she's listening the way I havenf.

I essentially said this exact thing to my IC. If you listed OW's traits both physical and personality wise, she was nothing H would have previously liked. It's really not about who the OW is or her traits though. It's about how she makes him feel. Valued, appreciated, supported. Probably similar to how you made him feel at the beginning.

Good luck at IC today. I hope you find it helpful.