I tried to get my wife to give me a bj a couple of times when we were dating, and she just said not now. I brought up the subject two years ago. I wrote her a letter letting her know how much I loved her, how much she turned me on. Then I said I would real like if she would give me some oral, and that I didn't know what her objections were. If she could tell me we might be able to work around it. If whe wanted to try, we could start with her licking it for just a minute and then I would give her oral for as long as she wants, to climax. Then in a couple weeks or with in a month she could try licking for two minutes and then I would do her to climax. Well her reaction was telling me she didn't realize she was such a bad wife! So I droped the subject for almost a year. I asked her again, she just said that giving oral wasn't her favorite thing (ahh, so she must have done it before being with me) and that she might do it "someday". Well we have been together for 10 years and married for 8 and someday still hasn't arrived.
I am interested it other's opinions on this subject.
