There IS life after divorce. Many of us have found out it can be wonderful! For me - I wanted to find someone new. I knew that would add to my happiness. I also worked hard to determine and achieve my goals: Financial stability, retirement, travel, good family ties, move to a calmer place.
Today marks 12 years since I had my first date with Josh. Yes - we met online. No - we did not live "nearby". We lived 90 min apart (not in rush hour) and had such busy lives that we only got together on Saturdays for the first couple of years. We talked on the phone a couple of nights a week as well - not every single night. But we were committed to making it work and it has.
We have travelled to places on our Bucket List. Shared so many good times and also some sad (we both lost our Moms during this time).Connected our families. Bought our dream house on the lake together. Made our own "family" albeit with 2 fluffy kitties as our "fur kids".
There can be a GOOD life after divorce. Go for what you really want. Make it happen. Be open to possibilities. Sometimes the best gifts don't come in familiar packaging - but give them a chance.
I love my life. Not much I would change.
Today, on April Fool's Day - we celebrate a dozen years of our love. Off to the beach and a special dinner…
