Being deceived by WAW, in need of some coaching

[skr4luv]

Before we had the discussion last night we already planned how we're going to spend this holyweek. We wanted to bring the kids to the parents and go out clubbing Thursday night, go away for Friday and Saturday with the kids and Sunday she wanted to get a little tattoo from an artist who's a friend of mine, who will do it for a friendly price.

Now after everything that we talked about last night, would it make sense for us to still do all that? Or is it time to go dark and tell her the plans are off?

At the moment I'm really confused. I still want to save the marriage, but I don't want to be plan B.
The way I reacted last night about her lunch with OM, I pushed to end our "reconciliation" which will enable her A even more.