Interesting topic. At least, interesting in a theoretical way, since this is something W will not even consider, and always has been. There was the odd time in the VERY early years (i.e. about 23 years ago or so) when she would make an attempt, but she always had to wash it first (with soap!). Not that I minded...
Anyway, it's really never been a big issue for me - it's not something I could call a "deal-breaker". However, giving her oral sex has always been one of my MOST favorite things! However, about 8 years ago or so, she just slammed the door on that, too. Basically said, "It's not something I want", thereby robbing me of the most enjoyable aspect of LM, which even then was dwindling down to practically nothing, and making variability virtually impossible. To quote Dilbert: "Gaaaa!"
