Hi Pink. Firstly so sorry for you son I think this shows you H is very wayward I'm not trying to excuse him for one second but not to even call you son on his birthday is very strange.
Secondly. Pink has to do whats right for Pink Only Pink knows how she feels and how she wants to proceed. From my own prospective, I would always give it few days /'weeks for your thoughts to settle and your mind to be clear so you are able to step back and understand that the decision is right for Pink and not just a reaction to your H being incredibly inconsiderate AGAIN.
Pink , as you know I am a huge fan and think we would be great friends had life been different and I still hold out hope for the future !!!!!!!!! I think Pink needs to carry on with her plans , she needs to protect herself and her family but Pink needs to take time for the explosive, emotional and passionate Pink to try and relax back from her own sitch and see what's really best for Pink
What ever Pink decides Pink will be great. I honestly envy your H because you are a wonderful person and like other ladies on here have so much life and love to give it would be a joy to be part of your life. Please know that Pink has a lot of life left to live and for your Hs sake I hope he comes out of his fog before it's too late
