I am still here. Thank you for asking. Today was a fairly momentous day.
I've been keeping track of W's comings and goings. Which are pretty much all "goings". Over the past 35 days, she has spent only 8 at home. Over the past week, on the weeknights she had never returned home before 11:30pm (and she has to get up at 6am to prepare for work) and on the weekend she disappeared on Friday morning and didn't come back until midnight Sunday. Then yesterday night, Monday, she knew I was teaching my class and wouldn't be back until some time between 11 and midnight... and therefore she made sure not to come home until 12:30, when she knew I would be asleep behind my closed door.
So today, during what actually was our final MC session-- and of course she was texting OM "I love you" before and during and after the session-- I decided to say "why don't you move out tomorrow and move in with OM? You're already living there anyway." And I was not surprised that she immediately agreed. I was surprised that she then returned that she wouldn't wait-- that she would move out TONIGHT. Which she has done. She is gone, and has taken her cat with her.
